He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
ALAIN DE BOTTONLiterature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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