The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
ALAIN DE BOTTONLiterature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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