Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
ALAIN DE BOTTONLiterature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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