My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
ALAIN DE BOTTONEvery realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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