Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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