Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
ALAIN DE BOTTONto design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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