The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
ALAIN DE BOTTONto design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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