The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
ALAIN DE BOTTONArchitects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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