It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
ALAIN DE BOTTONArchitects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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