Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
ALAIN DE BOTTONArchitects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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