The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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