We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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