A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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