Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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What I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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