Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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