The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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