We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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