As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIt was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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