Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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