If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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