Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
ALAIN DE BOTTONI went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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