The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
ALAIN DE BOTTONI went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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