True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTo one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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