We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTo one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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The more closely we analyze what we consider ‘sexy,’ the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.
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