One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTo one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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