True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
ALAIN DE BOTTONEveryone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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Booksellers are the most valuable destination for the lonely, given the numbers of books that were written because authors couldn’t find anyone to talk to.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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