Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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