Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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