You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThere is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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