Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThere is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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