It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
AIMEE BENDERHe was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
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Language is the ticket to plot and character, after all, because both are built out of language.
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But what I kept wondering about is this: that first second when she felt her skirt burning, what did she think?
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.
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I’m obsessed with adolescence. I love to write about people in their 20s.
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Pouring over me, but it was a different kind, siphoned from a different, and tamer, body of water. I was her darling daughter; Joseph was her it.
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I could feel the tears beginning to collect in my throat again, but I pushed them apart, away from each other. Tears are only a threat in groups.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
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You can ruin anything if you focus at it.
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