He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
AIMEE BENDERMy lover is experiencing reverse evolution.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
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A Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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Kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.
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And the warmth of the music inside her, did she believe, for even one glorious second, that her passion had arrived?
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But I loved George in part because he believed me; because if I stood in a cold, plain room and yelled FIRE, he would walk over and ask me why.
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Mom loved my brother more. Not that she didn’t love me – I felt the wash of her love every day.
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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You feel wonderful, you feel like somebody knows you’re alive, you feel fear because it could be a bomb, because you think you’re that important.
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It was like we were exchanging codes, on how to be a father and a daughter, like we’d read about it in a manual, translated from another language, and were doing our best with what we could understand.
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As a writer you ask yourself to dream while awake.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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