Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn’t appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.
AIMEE BENDERListen. Look. Desire is a house. Desire needs closed space. Desire runs out of doors or windows, or slats or pinpricks, it can’t fit under the sky, too large. Close the doors. Close the windows.
More Aimee Bender Quotes
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The writing I tend to think of as ‘good’ is good because it’s mysterious.
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It seemed to happen in springs, the revealing of things.
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It seems the best work I do is when I am really allowing the unconscious to rule the page and then later I can go back and hack around and make sense of things.
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We’re all getting too smart. Our brains are just getting bigger and bigger, and the world dries up and dies when there’s too much thought and not enough heart.
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I don’t think so, I don’t agree. The most unbearable thing I think by far, she said, is hope.
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I watched as she added a question mark at the end. Arc, line, space, dot.
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I am not happy, help me — like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.
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It’s a pleasure to dive into Hirshberg’s storytelling skills in American Morons.
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It’s such a fraught and exciting and kind of horrible time.
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I felt the crumpled paper that had taken the place of my lungs expand as if released from a fist.
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I have had with novel writing, and I have put to bed big chunks of work that just didn’t sustain my interest.
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He was also removing all traces of any tiny leftover parts, and suddenly a ritual which I’d always found incestuous and gross seemed to me more like a desperate act on Joseph’s part to get out, to leave, to extract every little last remnant and bring it into open air.
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If everything kept to its normal progression, we would live with the sadness-cry and then walk-but what really breaks us cleanest are the losses that happen out of order.
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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.
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My eyelids are my own private cave, he murmured. That I can go to anytime I want.
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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.
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Large meadows are lovely for picnics and romping, but they are for the lighter feelings. Meadows do not make me want to write.
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I admired that stride; it was like he folded space in two with it.
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I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.
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It is so often surprising, who rescues you at your lowest moments.
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There’s a gift in your lap and it’s beautifully wrapped and it’s not your birthday.
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With my hand in his, I looked at all the apartment buildings with rushes of love, peering in the wide streetside windows that revealed living rooms painted in dark burgandies and matte reds.
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It was a fleeting statement, one I didn’t think she’d hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us.
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And the warmth of the music inside her, did she believe, for even one glorious second, that her passion had arrived?
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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.
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That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.
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