Love is the Extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.
IRIS MURDOCHLove doesn’t think like that. All right, it’s blind as a bat- Bats have radar. Yours doesnt seem to be working.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Only take someone’s hand in a certain way, even look into their eyes in a certain way, and the world is changed forever.
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How different each death is, and yet it leads us into the self-same country, that country which we inhabit so rarely, where we see the worthlessness of what we have long pursued and will so soon return to pursuing.
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Those who hope, by retiring from the world, to earn a holiday from human frailty, in themselves and others, are usually disappointed.
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How huge it is, how empty, this great space for which I have been longing all my life. Still no letters.
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People from a planet without flowers would think we must be mad with joy the whole time to have such things about us.
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Starting a novel is opening a door on a misty landscape; you can still see very little but you can smell the earth and feel the wind blowing.
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Every artist is an unhappy lover. And unhappy lovers want to tell their story.
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Anything that consoles is fake.
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The theatre is certainly a place for learning about the brevity of human glory: oh all those wonderful glittering absolutely vanished pantomime! Now I shall abjure magic and become a hermit : put myself in a situation where I can honestly say that I have nothing else to do but to learn to be good.
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Jealousy is the most dreadfully involuntary of all sins.
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We defend ourselves with descriptions and tame the world by generalizing.
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Writing is like getting married. One should never commit oneself until one is amazed at one’s luck.
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There is no beyond, there is only here, the infinitely small, infinitely great and utterly demanding present.
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What a test that is: more than devotion, admiration, passion. If you long and long for someone’s company you love them.
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There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.
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