Guilt keeps people imprisoned in themselves.
IRIS MURDOCHTo lose somebody is to lose not only their person but all those modes and manifestations into which their person has flowed outwards; so that in losing a beloved one may find so many things, pictures, poems, melodies, places lost too: Dante, Avignon, a song of Shakespeare’s, the Cornish sea.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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I just enjoy translating, it’s like opening one’s mouth and hearing someone else’s voice emerge.
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Of course this chattering diary is a facade, the literary equivalent of the everyday smiling face which hides the inward ravages of jealousy, remorse, fear and the consciousness of irretrievable moral failure. Yet such pretenses are not only consolations but may even be productive of a little ersatz courage.
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One should go easy on smashing other people’s lies. Better to concentrate on one’s own.
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Perhaps there was an intimacy which did not need words.
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This sort of quiet gazing, which was like a feeding of the heart.
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What I needed with all my starved and silent soul was just that particular way of shouting back at the world.
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What a test that is: more than devotion, admiration, passion. If you long and long for someone’s company you love them.
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People from a planet without flowers would think we must be mad with joy the whole time to have such things about us.
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That doesn’t sound like you, you ride every wave. There is one that will drown me
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So we live; a spirit that broods and hovers over the continual death of time, the lost meaning, the unrecaptured moment, the unremembered face, until the final chop that ends all our moments and plunges that spirit back into the void from which it came.
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Love doesn’t think like that. All right, it’s blind as a bat- Bats have radar. Yours doesnt seem to be working.
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How different each death is, and yet it leads us into the self-same country, that country which we inhabit so rarely, where we see the worthlessness of what we have long pursued and will so soon return to pursuing.
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One of the secrets of a happy life is continuous small treats, and if some of these can be inexpensive and quickly procured so much the better.
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Jealousy is perhaps the most involuntary of all strong emotions. It steals consciousness, it lies deeper than thought. It is always there, like a blackness in the eye, it discolours the world.
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We can only learn to love by loving.
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The talk of lovers who have just declared their love is one of life’s most sweet delights. Each vies with the other in humility, in amazement at being so valued. The past is searched for the first signs and each one is in haste to declare all that he is so that no part of his being escapes the hallowing touch.
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Time, like the sea, unties all knots.
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Emotions really exist at the bottom of the personality or at the top. in the middle they are acted. This is why all the world is a stage.
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I’ve been so unhappy for years, so unhappy, I don’t understand how a human being can be so unhappy all the time and still be alive.
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Only the very greatest art invigorates without consoling.
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People have disappointed me and deceived me and let me down.
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Every man needs two women, a quiet home-maker, and a thrilling nymph.
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The most essential and fundamental aspect of culture is the study of literature, since this is an education in how to picture and understand human situations.
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I took a deep breath, however, and followed my rule of never speaking frankly to women in moments of emotion. No good ever comes of this.
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I feel half faded away like some figure in the background of an old picture.
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Only take someone’s hand in a certain way, even look into their eyes in a certain way, and the world is changed forever.
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