I felt a deep grief that crouched and stayed still as if it was afraid to move.
IRIS MURDOCHEmotions really exist at the bottom of the personality or at the top. in the middle they are acted. This is why all the world is a stage.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.
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So we live; a spirit that broods and hovers over the continual death of time, the lost meaning, the unrecaptured moment, the unremembered face, until the final chop that ends all our moments and plunges that spirit back into the void from which it came.
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Our actions are like ships which we may watch set out to sea, and not know when or with what cargo they will return to port.
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I think being a woman is like being Irish, Everyone says you’re important and nice, but you take second place all the time.
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Love is the extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.
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We are all the judges and the judged, victims of the casual malice and fantasy of others, and ready sources of fantasy and malice in our turn. And if we are sometimes accused of sins of which we are innocent, are there not also other sins of which we are guilty and of which the world knows nothing?
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But one must do something about the past. It doesn’t just cease to be. It goes on existing and affecting the present, and in new and different ways, as if in some other dimension it too were growing.
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People have disappointed me and deceived me and let me down.
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Time, like the sea, unties all knots.
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Writing is like getting married. One should never commit oneself until one is amazed at one’s luck.
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We live in a fantasy world, a world of illusion. The great task in life is to find reality says Iris Murdoch. But given the state of the world, is it wise?
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To lose somebody is to lose not only their person but all those modes and manifestations into which their person has flowed outwards; so that in losing a beloved one may find so many things, pictures, poems, melodies, places lost too: Dante, Avignon, a song of Shakespeare’s, the Cornish sea.
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I feel half faded away like some figure in the background of an old picture.
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The most essential and fundamental aspect of culture is the study of literature, since this is an education in how to picture and understand human situations.
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Falling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is.
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How huge it is, how empty, this great space for which I have been longing all my life. Still no letters.
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Of course this chattering diary is a facade, the literary equivalent of the everyday smiling face which hides the inward ravages of jealousy, remorse, fear and the consciousness of irretrievable moral failure. Yet such pretenses are not only consolations but may even be productive of a little ersatz courage.
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One of the secrets of a happy life is continuous small treats, and if some of these can be inexpensive and quickly procured so much the better.
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The bicycle is the most civilized conveyance known to man. Other forms of transport grow daily more nightmarish. Only the bicycle remains pure in heart.
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A bad review is even less important than whether it is raining in Patagonia.
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One should go easy on smashing other people’s lies. Better to concentrate on one’s own.
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Every persisting marriage is based on fear’, said Peregrine. ‘Fear is fundamental, you dig down in human nature and what’s at the bottom? Mean spiteful cruel self-regarding fear, whether it makes you to put the foot in it or whether it makes you to cower.
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Only take someone’s hand in a certain way, even look into their eyes in a certain way, and the world is changed forever.
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Hegel says that Truth is a great word and the thing is greater still. With Dave we never seemed to get past the word.
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Let us not waste love, it is rare enough.
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I just enjoy translating, it’s like opening one’s mouth and hearing someone else’s voice emerge.
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