People have obsessions and fears and passions which they don’t admit to. I think every character is interesting and has extremes. It’s the novelist privilege to see how odd everyone is.
IRIS MURDOCHWe are all prisoner, but the name of our cure is not freedom.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Perhaps there was an intimacy which did not need words.
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We need a moral philosophy which can speak significantly of Freud and Marx and out of which aesthetic and political views can be generated. We need a moral philosophy in which the concept of love, so rarely mentioned now, can once again be made central.
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We are all the judges and the judged, victims of the casual malice and fantasy of others, and ready sources of fantasy and malice in our turn. And if we are sometimes accused of sins of which we are innocent, are there not also other sins of which we are guilty and of which the world knows nothing?
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Writing is like getting married. One should never commit oneself until one is amazed at one’s luck.
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Coffee, unless it is very good and made by somebody else, is pretty intolerable at any time.
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This sort of quiet gazing, which was like a feeding of the heart.
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Jealousy is perhaps the most involuntary of all strong emotions. It steals consciousness, it lies deeper than thought. It is always there, like a blackness in the eye, it discolours the world.
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Between saying and doing, many a pair of shoes is worn out.
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Violence is born of the desire to escape oneself.
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One of the secrets of a happy life is continuous small treats, and if some of these can be inexpensive and quickly procured so much the better.
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There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.
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Let us not waste love, it is rare enough.
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As we live our precarious lives on the brink of the void, constantly coming closer to a state of nonbeing, we are all too often aware of our fragitlity.
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A bad review is even less important than whether it is raining in Patagonia.
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Every artist is an unhappy lover. And unhappy lovers want to tell their story.
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How different each death is, and yet it leads us into the self-same country, that country which we inhabit so rarely, where we see the worthlessness of what we have long pursued and will so soon return to pursuing.
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I feel I’m at the end of something – everything is going to be different – and terrible.
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People have disappointed me and deceived me and let me down.
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I’ve been so unhappy for years, so unhappy, I don’t understand how a human being can be so unhappy all the time and still be alive.
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Bereavement is a darkness impenetrable to the imagination of the unbereaved.
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There is no beyond, there is only here, the infinitely small, infinitely great and utterly demanding present.
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The talk of lovers who have just declared their love is one of life’s most sweet delights. Each vies with the other in humility, in amazement at being so valued. The past is searched for the first signs and each one is in haste to declare all that he is so that no part of his being escapes the hallowing touch.
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Every persisting marriage is based on fear’, said Peregrine. ‘Fear is fundamental, you dig down in human nature and what’s at the bottom? Mean spiteful cruel self-regarding fear, whether it makes you to put the foot in it or whether it makes you to cower.
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Falling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is.
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Only take someone’s hand in a certain way, even look into their eyes in a certain way, and the world is changed forever.
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An experience is richest not talked of.
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