I don’t think I can marry, I’m not fit for it, I’m not real enough. That’s the trouble. I’m a puppet that’s realised what’s wrong with itself and it’s horrible. I’m propped up somewhere all alone, watching the real people go past. I’m propped up crying in a corner.
IRIS MURDOCHHegel says that Truth is a great word and the thing is greater still. With Dave we never seemed to get past the word.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Writing is like getting married. One should never commit oneself until one is amazed at one’s luck.
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I have nobody in the world. I’ll kill myself. That’s best. Everyone will say, It’s for the best that she killed herself, she’s better off dead. I hate myself so much I could spend hours and hours just screaming with hatred and with the pain of it, oh the pain of it.
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I felt a deep grief that crouched and stayed still as if it was afraid to move.
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Youth is a marvelous garment.
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Time, like the sea, unties all knots.
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One should go easy on smashing other people’s lies. Better to concentrate on one’s own.
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Let us not waste love, it is rare enough.
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The absolute yearning of one human body for another particular body and its indifference to substitutes is one of life’s major mysteries.
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There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.
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Bereavement is a darkness impenetrable to the imagination of the unbereaved.
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Falling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is.
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Perhaps there was an intimacy which did not need words.
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I’ve felt as if I didn’t exist, as if I were invisible, miles away from the world, miles away. You can’t imagine how much alone I’ve been all my life.
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We can only learn to love by loving.
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I feel I’m at the end of something – everything is going to be different – and terrible.
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