What a test that is: more than devotion, admiration, passion. If you long and long for someone’s company you love them.
IRIS MURDOCHBereavement is a darkness impenetrable to the imagination of the unbereaved.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Art and psychoanalisis give shape and meaning to life and that’s why we adore them. However, life as it is lived has no shape nor meaning, and that’s what I am experiencing right now.
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Of course this chattering diary is a facade, the literary equivalent of the everyday smiling face which hides the inward ravages of jealousy, remorse, fear and the consciousness of irretrievable moral failure. Yet such pretenses are not only consolations but may even be productive of a little ersatz courage.
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Her eyes, which refused to meet mine, had the defensive coldness of those who are determined to lose hope.
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One should go easy on smashing other people’s lies. Better to concentrate on one’s own.
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Time, like the sea, unties all knots.
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What I needed with all my starved and silent soul was just that particular way of shouting back at the world.
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Every persisting marriage is based on fear’, said Peregrine. ‘Fear is fundamental, you dig down in human nature and what’s at the bottom? Mean spiteful cruel self-regarding fear, whether it makes you to put the foot in it or whether it makes you to cower.
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The bicycle is the most civilized conveyance known to man. Other forms of transport grow daily more nightmarish. Only the bicycle remains pure in heart.
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In philosophy if you aren’t moving at a snail’s pace you aren’t moving at all.
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Between saying and doing, many a pair of shoes is worn out.
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The talk of lovers who have just declared their love is one of life’s most sweet delights. Each vies with the other in humility, in amazement at being so valued. The past is searched for the first signs and each one is in haste to declare all that he is so that no part of his being escapes the hallowing touch.
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What an extraordinary satisfaction there is in cleaning things! (Does the satisfaction depend on ownership? I suspect so.
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For most of us, for almost all of us, truth can be attained, if at all, only in silence. It is in silence that the human spirit touches the divine.
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Anything that consoles is fake.
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Coffee, unless it is very good and made by somebody else, is pretty intolerable at any time.
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I have nobody in the world. I’ll kill myself. That’s best. Everyone will say, It’s for the best that she killed herself, she’s better off dead. I hate myself so much I could spend hours and hours just screaming with hatred and with the pain of it, oh the pain of it.
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This sort of quiet gazing, which was like a feeding of the heart.
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Love is the Extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.
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Of course reading and thinking are important but, my God, food is important too.
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Writing is like getting married. One should never commit oneself until one is amazed at one’s luck.
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Emotions really exist at the bottom of the personality or at the top. in the middle they are acted. This is why all the world is a stage.
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Youth is a marvelous garment.
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We defend ourselves with descriptions and tame the world by generalizing.
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Reading and writing and the preservation of language and its forms and the kind of eloquence and the kind of beauty which the language is capable of is terribly important to the human beings because this is connected to thought.
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I feel I’m at the end of something – everything is going to be different – and terrible.
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Hegel says that Truth is a great word and the thing is greater still. With Dave we never seemed to get past the word.
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