Every persisting marriage is based on fear’, said Peregrine. ‘Fear is fundamental, you dig down in human nature and what’s at the bottom? Mean spiteful cruel self-regarding fear, whether it makes you to put the foot in it or whether it makes you to cower.
IRIS MURDOCHIn philosophy if you aren’t moving at a snail’s pace you aren’t moving at all.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Violence is born of the desire to escape oneself.
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Coffee, unless it is very good and made by somebody else, is pretty intolerable at any time.
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Guilt keeps people imprisoned in themselves.
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There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.
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What I needed with all my starved and silent soul was just that particular way of shouting back at the world.
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Time, like the sea, unties all knots.
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The talk of lovers who have just declared their love is one of life’s most sweet delights. Each vies with the other in humility, in amazement at being so valued. The past is searched for the first signs and each one is in haste to declare all that he is so that no part of his being escapes the hallowing touch.
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Every artist is an unhappy lover. And unhappy lovers want to tell their story.
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How huge it is, how empty, this great space for which I have been longing all my life. Still no letters.
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Every man needs two women, a quiet home-maker, and a thrilling nymph.
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Writing is like getting married. One should never commit oneself until one is amazed at one’s luck.
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The most essential and fundamental aspect of culture is the study of literature, since this is an education in how to picture and understand human situations.
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I just enjoy translating, it’s like opening one’s mouth and hearing someone else’s voice emerge.
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We are all the judges and the judged, victims of the casual malice and fantasy of others, and ready sources of fantasy and malice in our turn. And if we are sometimes accused of sins of which we are innocent, are there not also other sins of which we are guilty and of which the world knows nothing?
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The theatre is certainly a place for learning about the brevity of human glory: oh all those wonderful glittering absolutely vanished pantomime! Now I shall abjure magic and become a hermit : put myself in a situation where I can honestly say that I have nothing else to do but to learn to be good.
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We defend ourselves with descriptions and tame the world by generalizing.
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Emotions really exist at the bottom of the personality or at the top. in the middle they are acted. This is why all the world is a stage.
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I feel I’m at the end of something – everything is going to be different – and terrible.
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Falling out of love is chiefly a matter of forgetting how charming someone is.
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I feel half faded away like some figure in the background of an old picture.
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There is a gulf fixed between those who can sleep and those who cannot. It is one of the greatest divisions of the human race.
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I’ve felt as if I didn’t exist, as if I were invisible, miles away from the world, miles away. You can’t imagine how much alone I’ve been all my life.
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This sort of quiet gazing, which was like a feeding of the heart.
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How different each death is, and yet it leads us into the self-same country, that country which we inhabit so rarely, where we see the worthlessness of what we have long pursued and will so soon return to pursuing.
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People have disappointed me and deceived me and let me down.
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There is no beyond, there is only here, the infinitely small, infinitely great and utterly demanding present.
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