Every persisting marriage is based on fear’, said Peregrine. ‘Fear is fundamental, you dig down in human nature and what’s at the bottom? Mean spiteful cruel self-regarding fear, whether it makes you to put the foot in it or whether it makes you to cower.
IRIS MURDOCHWe are all prisoner, but the name of our cure is not freedom.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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Jealousy is perhaps the most involuntary of all strong emotions. It steals consciousness, it lies deeper than thought. It is always there, like a blackness in the eye, it discolours the world.
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Only take someone’s hand in a certain way, even look into their eyes in a certain way, and the world is changed forever.
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This sort of quiet gazing, which was like a feeding of the heart.
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Violence is born of the desire to escape oneself.
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There is no substitute for the comfort supplied by the utterly taken-for-granted relationship.
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Youth is a marvelous garment.
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How different each death is, and yet it leads us into the self-same country, that country which we inhabit so rarely, where we see the worthlessness of what we have long pursued and will so soon return to pursuing.
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That doesn’t sound like you, you ride every wave. There is one that will drown me
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I took a deep breath, however, and followed my rule of never speaking frankly to women in moments of emotion. No good ever comes of this.
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The theatre is certainly a place for learning about the brevity of human glory: oh all those wonderful glittering absolutely vanished pantomime! Now I shall abjure magic and become a hermit : put myself in a situation where I can honestly say that I have nothing else to do but to learn to be good.
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People have disappointed me and deceived me and let me down.
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People from a planet without flowers would think we must be mad with joy the whole time to have such things about us.
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Love is the extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.
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A bad review is even less important than whether it is raining in Patagonia.
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Our actions are like ships which we may watch set out to sea, and not know when or with what cargo they will return to port.
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