It is awareness of both our shared pain and our longing for happiness that links us to other people and helps us to turn toward them with compassion.
SHARON SALZBERGIf we turn away from our own pain, we may find ourselves projecting this aversion onto others, seeing them as somehow inadequate for being in a troubled situation.
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The mind thinks thoughts that we don’t plan. It’s not as if we say, ‘At 9:10 I’m going to be filled with self-hatred.
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We find greater lightness & ease in our lives as we increasingly care for ourselves & other beings.
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We don’t need any sort of religious orientation to lead a life that is ethical, compassionate & kind.
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Effort is the unconstrained willingness to persevere through difficulty.
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To relinquish the futile effort to control change is one of the strengthening forces of true detachment & thus true love.
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Once we are honest about our feelings, we can invite ourselves to consider alternative modes of viewing our pain and can see that releasing our grip on anger and resentment can actually be an act of self-compassion.
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Letting go is an inside job, something only we can do for ourselves.
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People turn to meditation because they want to make good decisions, break bad habits & bounce back better from disappointments.
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When we don’t tell those we love about what’s really going on or listen carefully to what they have to say, we tend to fill in the blanks with stories.
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The light still illuminates the room and banishes the murkiness, letting you see the things you couldn’t see before.
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Training attention through meditation opens our eyes.
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We use mindfulness to observe the way we cling to pleasant experiences & push away unpleasant ones.
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We’re capable of much more than mediocrity, much more than merely getting by in this world.
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Fearful of wasting a second, we hoard time as if it were money.
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Meditation can be a refuge, but it is not a practice in which real life is ever excluded. The strength of mindfulness is that it enables us to hold difficult thoughts and feelings in a different way—with awareness, balance, and love
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