Love is not just a passion spark between two people; there is infinite difference between falling in love and standing in love.
IRVIN D. YALOMReality always creeps in–the reality of our helplessness and our mortality; the reality that, despite our reach for the stars, a creaturely fate awaits us.
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The therapist can make the group feel safer by allowing each patient to set his or her limits and by emphasizing the patient’s control over every interaction.
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I dream of a love that is more than two people craving to possess one another.
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Life as a therapist is a life of service in which we daily transcend our personal wishes and turn our gaze toward the needs and growth of the other.
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My hunch is yes. It would certainly do something for those who are most ruthless, who tend to make others most miserable.
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Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
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To the extent that one is responsible for one’s life, one is alone.
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Living safely is dangerous.
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Mature love is loving, not being loved.
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One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
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A sense of life meaning ensues but cannot be deliberately pursued: life meaning is always a derivative phenomenon that materializes when we have transcended ourselves.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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The act of revealing oneself fully to another and still being accepted may be the major vehicle of therapeutic help.
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Just as you were about to step on it, I asked you “Do you want to cross the footbridge to me?” – Immediately you did not want to anymore; and when I asked you again you remained silent.
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Indeed, the evidence supporting the efficacy of group therapy, and the prevailing sentiment of the mental health profession, are sufficiently strong that it would be difficult to defend the adequacy of the inpatient unit that attempted to operate without a small group program.
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One doesn’t do existential therapy as a freestanding separate theory; rather it informs your approach to such issues as death, which many therapists tend to shy away from.
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