If I’m among men who don’t agree at all with my nature, I will hardly be able to accommodate myself to them without greatly changing myself.
IRVIN D. YALOMA curious thought experiment. . . Nietzsche’s message to us was to live life in such a way that we would be willing to repeat the same life eternally
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Many people are in despair because their dreams didn’t come true, and they despair even more that they did not make them come true.
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Life is a miserable thing. I have decided to spend my life thinking about it.
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Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
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Heidegger makes the distinction between being absorbed in the way things are in the world and being aware that things are in the world.
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Reality always creeps in–the reality of our helplessness and our mortality; the reality that, despite our reach for the stars, a creaturely fate awaits us.
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Only the wounded healer can truly heal. (97)
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When that person dies, the whole cluster dies,too, vanishes from the living memory. I wonder who that person will be for me. Whose death will make me truly dead?
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I thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people.
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To the best of my knowledge, every acute inpatient ward offers some inpatient group therapy experience.
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My hunch is yes. It would certainly do something for those who are most ruthless, who tend to make others most miserable.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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If one is to learn to live with the dead, one must first learn to live with the living!
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I think my quarry is illusion. I war against magic. I believe that, though illusion often cheers and comforts, it ultimately and invariably weakens and constricts the spirit.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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This was due to a kind of increased existential awareness that resulted from this confrontation with the death of another. And I think it brought them in touch with their own death, so they began to experience a kind of preciousness to life that comes with an experience of its transiency.
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