Irvin D. Yalom on brotherhood
Irvin D. Yalom108 quotes“There was a time in our lives when we were so close that nothing seemed to obstruct our friendship and brotherhood, and only a small footbridge separated us.”
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Life as a therapist is a life of service in which we daily transcend our personal wishes and turn our gaze toward the needs and growth of the other.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom When that person dies, the whole cluster dies,too, vanishes from the living memory. I wonder who that person will be for me. Whose death will make me truly dead?
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom The therapist can make the group feel safer by allowing each patient to set his or her limits and by emphasizing the patient’s control over every interaction.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom You know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Some sort of greater awareness of their own finiteness and what their time on earth really is, and what they really want to do with their lives, could help improve them.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Never take away anything if you have nothing better to offer
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Despite the staunchest, most venerable defenses, we can never completely subdue death anxiety: it is always there, lurking in some hidden ravine of the mind.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom We take pleasure not only in the growth of our patient but also in the ripple effect—the salutary influence our patients have upon those whom they touch in life.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom The path to decision may be hard because it leads into the territory of both finiteness and groundlessness—domains soaked in anxiety.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom When we have forgotten ourselves and become absorbed in someone (or something) outside ourselves
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Self-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
Irvin D. YalomIrvin D. Yalom Death cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns–fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns–seem to melt away, and people get another perspective on their lives. The important things are really important, and the trivia of life is trivialized.
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Abdu'l-BahaAbdu'l-Baha We want to be, I think, an example for the rest of the Arab world, because there are a lot of people who say that the only democracy you can have in the Middle East is the Muslim Brotherhood.
Abdullah IIAbdullah II To be a Baha’i simply means to love all the world; to love humanity and try to serve it; to work for universal peace and universal brotherhood.
Abdu'l-BahaAbdu'l-Baha A smile or a tear has no nationality; joy and sorrow speak alike to all nations, and they, above all the confusion of tongues, proclaim the brotherhood of man.
Frederick DouglassFrederick Douglass I believe in the brotherhood of man, all men, but I don’t believe in brotherhood with anybody who doesn’t want brotherhood with me.
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