The pain is there; when you close one door on it, it knocks to come in somewhere else.
IRVIN D. YALOMMirroring, softly, barely audibly, just under the membrane of consciousness.
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Some piece of ourselves, not necessarily our consciousness, but some piece of ourselves gets passed on and on and on.
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The drive for power is not uncommonly motivated by this dynamic. One’s own fear and sense of limitation is avoided by enlarging oneself and one’s sphere of control.
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Despair is the price one pays for self-awareness. Look deeply into life, and you’ll always find despair.
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Religion has everything on its side: revelation, prophecies, government protection, the highest dignity and eminence. . . and more than this, the invaluable prerogative of being allowed to imprint its doctrines on the mind at a tender age of childhood, whereby they become almost innate ideas.
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Heidegger makes the distinction between being absorbed in the way things are in the world and being aware that things are in the world.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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The death anxiety of many people is fueled … by disappointment at never having fulfilled their potential.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
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I think my quarry is illusion. I war against magic. I believe that, though illusion often cheers and comforts, it ultimately and invariably weakens and constricts the spirit.
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This was due to a kind of increased existential awareness that resulted from this confrontation with the death of another. And I think it brought them in touch with their own death, so they began to experience a kind of preciousness to life that comes with an experience of its transiency.
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Self-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
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You know, I think everybody I’ve seen has come from some other therapy, and almost invariably it’s very much the same thing: the therapist is too disinterested, a little too aloof, a little too inactive. They’re not really interested in the person, he doesn’t relate to the person.
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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