The creative members of an orthodoxy, any orthodoxy, ultimately outgrow their disciplines.
IRVIN D. YALOMNone of my patients are really troubled by the idea that some part of what they say might be in a book in the future.
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We take pleasure not only in the growth of our patient but also in the ripple effect—the salutary influence our patients have upon those whom they touch in life.
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Absolute power, as we have always known, corrupts absolutely; it corrupts because it does not do the trick for the individual.
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Psychiatry is a strange field because, unlike any other field of medicine, you never really finish.
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Some have expressed the very opposite feeling–the fear that they would not be interesting enough to write about.
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Mature love is loving, not being loved.
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I never want to take away something when I don’t have anything better to offer him in a way.
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Since then mountains and torrential rivers and whatever separates and alienates have been cast between us, and even if we wanted to get together, we couldn’t. But when you now think of that little footbridge, words fail you and you sob and marvel.
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To the extent that one is responsible for one’s life, one is alone.
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The path to decision may be hard because it leads into the territory of both finiteness and groundlessness—domains soaked in anxiety.
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Psychotherapy is a cyclical process from isolation into relationship. It is cyclical because the patient, in terror of existential isolation, relates deeply and meaningfully to the therapist and then, strengthened by this encounter, is led back again to a confrontation with existential isolation.
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The more you fail to experience your life fully, the more you will fear death.
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Your greatest instrument is you, yourself, and the work of self-understanding is endless. I’m still learning.
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I don’t let any personal views about religion cause me to want to take away something that’s offering the patient comfort.
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Death loses its terror if one dies when one has consummated one’s life!
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Just as you were about to step on it, I asked you “Do you want to cross the footbridge to me?” – Immediately you did not want to anymore; and when I asked you again you remained silent.
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