Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThere is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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