The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThere is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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