The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
ALAIN DE BOTTONHow do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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