People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
ALAIN DE BOTTONHow do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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We need a refuge to shore up our states of mind, because so much of the world is opposed to our allegiances. We need our rooms to align us to desirable versions of ourselves and to keep alive the important, evanescent sides of us.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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