For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAlthough I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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