Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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