Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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What I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
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