He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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The largest part of what we call ‘personality’ is determined by how we’ve opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness”.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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