The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
ALAIN DE BOTTONRage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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The best cure for one’s bad tendencies is to see them in action in another person.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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