One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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Out of the millions of people we live among, most of whom we habitually ignore and are ignored by in turn, there are always a few that hold hostage our capacity for happiness, whom we could recognize by their smell alone and whom we would rather die than be without.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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