Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
ALAIN DE BOTTONNewspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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What I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but that we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas and make sure that we own them, that we’re truly the authors of our own ambitions.
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