Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
ALAIN DE BOTTONNewspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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The need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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