Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
ALAIN DE BOTTONSo many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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Anyone who isn’t embarrassed of who they were last year probably isn’t learning enough.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Our sadness won’t be of the searing kind but more like a blend of joy and melancholy: joy at the perfection we see before us, melancholy at an awareness of how seldom we are sufficiently blessed to encounter anything of its kind.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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We need a home in the psychological sense as much as we need one in the physical: to compensate for a vulnerability.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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