Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOur minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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We should read other people’s books in order to learn what we feel; it is our own thoughts we should be developing, even if it is another writer’s thought that help us to do so.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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