Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
ALAIN DE BOTTONHow generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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