The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
ALAIN DE BOTTONHow generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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Dreams reveal we never quite get ‘over’ anything: it’s all still in there somewhere.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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