The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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