Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhat is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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Which seems no less relevant in the secular realm than in the religious one-that we have within us a precious, childlike, vulnerable core which we should nourish and nurture on its turbulent journey through life.
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The problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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