You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWhen you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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Though it may feel otherwise, enjoying life is no more dangerous than apprehending it with continuous anxiety and gloom.
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There is real danger of a disconnect between what’s on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it’s not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.
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