How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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Yet often, they know but just don’t care. So the task of serious journalism isn’t just to lay out truths. It is to make vital truths compelling to a big audience.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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