Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
ALAIN DE BOTTONMost victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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What kills us isn’t one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can’t turn down for fear of disappointing others.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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