Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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The longing for a destiny is no nowhere stronger than in our romantic life. All too often forced to share our bed with those who cannot fathom our soul, can we not be forgiven if we believe ourselves fated to stumble one day upon the man or woman of our dreams.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude – not a punishment for making money.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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