There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIf we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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I passionately believe that’s it’s not just what you say that counts, it’s also how you say it – that the success of your argument critically depends on your manner of presenting it.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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