Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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