When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
ALAIN DE BOTTONHappiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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Literature deeply stands opposed to the dominant value system-the one that rewards money and power. Writers are on the other side-they make us sympathetic to ideas and feelings that are of deep importance but can’t afford airtime in a commercialized, status-consciou s, and cynical world.
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Social media has lots of benefits, but compared to Christianity, it tends to group people by interests. Religion puts you with people who have nothing in common except that you’re human.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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